Wednesday, April 25, 2012

HATER:  A person that simply cannot be happy for another person's success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person. - urbandictionary.com


I've never really been a hater in my life, not much from what I remember and if I was, it would most likely be because they didn't like me first. 


I'm so over high school drama, and I think most haters that exist are still in that phase.  They can't stand the fact that people are happy, so they knock them down or try their best to. 

When they spend more time loving themselves first, they'll start to shed a little more light and stop the hating.  I can't stand it when worstly a friend feels jealousy towards me or some kind of hate/resentment. 


What really bugs me is when people think i'm spoiled.  I am definitely not spoiled.  I do have my own car, I don't have to work, and I have a few materials that may make it seem like I am spoiled, but I shouldn't even have to explain myself. 
Behind the scenes I am:  scrubbing down the toilets, tubs, grease and grime.  I am washing dishes, cleaning the windows, vacuuming dirt and crumbs off the floor, cutting up raw chicken/meat, chopping vegetables, cooking for goodness!, cleaning the dishes, loading the laundry, drying the laundry, folding the laundry, putting the laundry back, picking up toys, feeding my son seperately because he doesn't like to eat what we eat, keeping my son entertained, exercising so i won't lose myself, dusting, wiping, changing diapers, figuring out what i'm going to cook next..the list goes on.

I don't sit there and have things get handed to me.  I do work at home even if it's not at a retail place.  If I didn't lift a finger here at home our place would look like a scene from Hoarders. 

I know I shouldn't let people get to me but me being the nice person I am, it does get to me.  I just can't understand why people can have so much hate in their heart sometimes.  I just have to remind myself that they need more love.

3 comments :

Jean said...

Misery loves company... =)

You should read my quote on my ABOUT ME page on the way bottom by Mother Teresa! Do It Anyway!!! xoxo

zest said...

Long time silent reader. I agree ppl who are haters..they just dont have any love in their life, so they feel the need to bring you down. Dont let it get to you...

DimePieceOnaDime said...

I just found your blog! I'm a new subscriber! i totally feel you on this blog. People have no idea the guts it takes to explore your passion especially publicly! They make all these assumptions about your based on NOTHING!! I've found that best revenge against haters is to pretend they don't exist. Keep being happy and enjoying yourself and continue to not even acknowledge anyone or anything that is not positive. Life is too darn short! xoxo and keep doing you!