Haters..they just need some LOVE

HATER:  A person that simply cannot be happy for another person's success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person. - urbandictionary.com

I've never really been a hater in my life, not much from what I remember and if I was, it would most likely be because they didn't like me first. 

I'm so over high school drama, and I think most haters that exist are still in that phase.  They can't stand the fact that people are happy, so they knock them down or try their best to. 

When they spend more time loving themselves first, they'll start to shed a little more light and stop the hating.  I can't stand it when worstly a friend feels jealousy towards me or some kind of hate/resentment. 

What really bugs me is when people think i'm spoiled.  I am definitely not spoiled.  I do have my own car, I don't have to work, and I have a few materials that may make it seem like I am spoiled, but I shouldn't even have to explain myself. 

Behind the scenes I am:  scrubbing down the toilets, tubs, grease and grime.  I am washing dishes, cleaning the windows, vacuuming dirt and crumbs off the floor, cutting up raw chicken/meat, chopping vegetables, cooking for goodness!, cleaning the dishes, loading the laundry, drying the laundry, folding the laundry, putting the laundry back, picking up toys, feeding my son seperately because he doesn't like to eat what we eat, keeping my son entertained, exercising so i won't lose myself, dusting, wiping, changing diapers, figuring out what i'm going to cook next..the list goes on.

I don't sit there and have things get handed to me.  I do work at home even if it's not at a retail place.  If I didn't lift a finger here at home our place would look like a scene from Hoarders. 

I know I shouldn't let people get to me but me being the nice person I am, it does get to me.  I just can't understand why people can have so much hate in their heart sometimes.  I just have to remind myself that they need more love.